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Now, onto today's topic: sexy domination and submission games to play in the bedroom. Do you have any ideas for roleplaying or trying specific scenarios?
There are so many different ways to play around with domination and submission. Keep in mind that domination and submission are pretty wideand mean different things to different people. Some of the games on this list might sound really hot; some may feel dojinating they cross the line. Talk through each of these suggestions together and see which ones seem safe and sexy to the two of you.
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One of the easiest ways to play around with Domination and submission is to spend an entire evening catering to the Dom. The sub gets no attention of their own. Of course, these are things that have ly been agreed upon.
Here are some ideas of ways the sub could get punished: A spankingwith a hand, paddle, belt, whip, or dominaitng item. Not being allowed to orgasm.
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Not being allowed any sort of contact. Getting a certain task to perform.
Can be explicitly sexual like giving oral sex or not like doing the laundry. Having to start from the talo with a specific task.
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Being called a name. Even small things.
You tqlk do this inside the bedroom, and the sub can ask for permission to do things like take off their clothes, move their body, or touch their Dom. Or try it outside of the bedroom, where the sub can ask for permission to use the tali, eat, or go outside. Master May I Come You can play a variant on the aforementioned game by forcing the sub to ask the Dom permission to orgasm.
The Dom can be extra sneaky by trying to get the sub to orgasm, but not giving them permission to do so.
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Do Your Chores This game can be played in a single day, or on an ongoing basis. The Dom ass their sub talkk chores to do. For example, the sub might need to perform the chores wearing a special outfit. Or there might be a set timeline that the sub has to finish the chores within. The Dom can even perform an inspection to make sure the chores have been done properly.
For example, the sub might get to have an orgasm, or they might get a present. The sub can get their reward, but they will still have to perform some task or punishment at the same time. For example, the Dom can allow the sub to take a break and watch TV, but only if, say, they keep a butt plug in the entire time.
The Dom can as a certain of points for specific chores or tasks. Then they can as points for certain rewards.
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Just like at the fair, where you have to get a certain of tickets to win specific prizes, the sub can work their way up to getting the reward of their choosing. This is a great beginners gamesince the sub can have a lot of say in what they do.
Immobilization Not everyone is into restraints, but they srx be an incredibly sexy way for the Dom to showcase their dominance over the sub. The Dom ties their sub down, immobilizing their hands, feet, or both.
This can be done with a restraint systembondage tapeor bondage rope. The Dom gets to be in control of when the restraints domimating removed.
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Roleplaying There are an endless of ways you can roleplay Dom and sub roles. Here are just a domjnating ideas: King or queen and humble servant. Famous celebrity and personal assistant.
Teacher and student.