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Did you know that what and when you text back will determine where your relationship will go? This how-to handbook will coach you on the subtle art of sending short and sweet texts, with slight innuendos, to have your crush cruising for more. In this excerpt, authors Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz write about why sexting while in a relationship can make you fall in love all over again.

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Kinky text messages for him

The hik time I sexted with someone, it was with my long-distance ex. He lived out of state, so we would text each other all day long — and eventually all night, too. I mean, there's only so long you can have a long-distance romance before things start getting It started innocently enough, fog me thinking of flirty texts to send to him, and before I knew it, things were getting really hot.

As someone who is pretty shy about dirty talk, I never imagined I was a sexter. My first foray into font-based freakiness was txet bit intimidating — for, like, two minutes, and then it was on. It turns out sexting with someone is actually easy, super fun, and hot.

Kinky text messages for him

We had a great time that night, and many nights after. I highly recommend it.

Kinky text messages for him

There's something about the safety of being behind that screen that really allowed me to let my freak flag fly. And it even turned out to be a really empowering experience that helped me get even more comfortable with my sexual side. Also, orgasms.

Just sayin'. So, what do you do if you're texting with someone you're into and you start getting turned on?

Allow me to assist you. Can't sleep. I just keep imagining all the things we could be doing to each other if you were here.

Kinky text messages for him

See, sexting is not so scary after all! If you have any better sext ideas, I'm always looking for new material. Leave 'em in the comments.

Kinky text messages for him

This article was originally published on Oct. By Rachel Shatto.